Joseph Barker
and
Mary Ann Doidge Barker Dunton
(Continued)
In May of 1881, when Dora was eight and Ella was ten,
they again loaded their belongings into the wagon and
started for an unknown destination. They moved north of
Durango, Colorado, where James Dunton hauled lumber from a
sawmill to Durango. Here, Mary Ann found work doing laundry
for others. The first house they lived in there was a dugout
and the children helped clear and then plant and harvest
crops. Dora says "We helped Mother make tallow candles which
we used for light, and soap for our laundry. We helped with
the laundry and gleaned in the fields to get money to buy
our school clothes. Mother, through it all, never looked on
work as a drudgery, but was always glad to do anything she
could to help make our way, and we learned to do the same.
Always, it seemed she was able to look on the bright side of
life." In the fall of 1882, they moved to Mancos, Colorado
and took up a farm on land that they homesteaded, living in
a tent until they could build a dugout home for them and
then later a log house. It was remembered that, "The girls
were unable to attend school at first because of a lack of
clothes to wear. They had received some schooling in Parowan
and also had instruction from their mother. The school in
Mancos was two miles away and it was necessary to cross a
river on a plank." Dora remembered that the second spring,
their mother "told Ella and me that we might go to school if
we could go to town and get some rose bushes and other
things we had sent for by mail, without falling in the
river. The bridge had been washed out by high water and
there was only a narrow foot bridge without a railing,
across the stream. We went in high hopes of having the
privilege of going to school. So far we had not been able to
get much education. We went across bravely enough and
obtained the things we were to bring home, but on our return
journey, I got dizzy and called to Ella, who had already
made it across, to come and help me. She came back for me,
but she fell into the rushing torrent. A woman and her son,
who lived close by, had been watching us and when they saw
her fall, the young man ran to the stream and rescued Ellen,
who was able to grasp a willow on the bank. I dropped to my
knees and crawled on across the bridge, which I should have
had sense enough to do in the first place. No school for us
that year." They were finally allowed to go to school
after Mary Ann again began taking in washings and was able
to get suitable clothes for school for them. It was cold in
winter with deep snow. Their mother would wrap their feet in
burlap to keep them warm. Dora writes, "At our new
location, everyone worked. Brother Dunton grubbed the brush
to clear the land with a common grub hoe, and we girls piled
it in big piles for burning in the evening. The colorful
flames leaping into the dusk which had fallen over the
valley were a source of enjoyment for all family members as
they ran from one pile of brush to another igniting the dry
wood. "That was one of our few sources of recreation in
those days. When the grain matured, Brother Dunton would cut
it with a cradle, an implement consisting of a long knife
and several wooden fingers. The fallen grain would be tossed
into a clump by the cradle fingers and my sister, Ella, and
I would bind it by making a band of the greener stems to
wrap the sheaf, the ends of which were twisted to tie the
bundle. "Mother planted a garden including fruit bushes as
well as vegetables. She soon had a lovely flower garden,
also, in our front yard. "She took in washings from town
folk to help support the family. The clothes had to be
brought out to the farm on an old yellow mare, which would
often mire down in the swamps which dotted the road between
our home and the community. Mother was always glad to get
the work." About Ellen, it was remembered that "she loved
to dance and take part in sports. Many times after dancing
nearly all night, she would go home and put on her house
dress and help her mother in doing washing. She and her
sister would ride horseback to gather and deliver the
clothes which they washed for others." Dora said, "From
the home, we children walked to school in town part of the
time and rode a horse when the roads were bad. We had a cow
and chickens to help provide the living, and with the extra
money Mother brought in, we faired pretty well." In 1882,
two years after Mary Ann had left Parowan, the four older
girls went to Colorado. They were taken as passengers with a
group that was going to Colorado. Progress was so slow that
they covered most of the distance on foot, keeping behind
the advance guard of horsemen and ahead of the slow-moving
wagons. Mary considered this trip the adventure of her life.
She never tired of telling about it and of the thrill of
crossing the Colorado River on a ferry boat. They crossed
the river at Lee’s Ferry and it was said they enjoyed the
crossing so much that they went back on the empty ferry and
crossed a second time. Kate said of the trip, "Emma and I
rode with Marius Dunton, Mr. Dunton’s second son. Sade and
Mary paid $20.00 each to ride with a family named Rolly. I
had an easy trip, because I got to sleep in the wagon nights
with Mrs. Rolly and her baby. It was my job to keep him in
bed mornings, while Mrs. Rolly prepared breakfast. He was a
cute baby. The entire trip took us about a month." They
arrived in Mancos shortly before Christmas. Kate said,
"Mr. Dunton met our wagon train at Bluff City. When we got
close to home, Mr. Dunton told me of a turn-off ahead and
said to follow it till I came to a big gate and that was
where we were to live. I ran on ahead, found the gate, went
through and ran to find Mother. The first side of the house
had a chimney on it. I ran to another side and there was a
window level with the ground. I could look through and there
was Mother with the three younger children. She had the
table set with some lovely china with gold bands around the
edges. Everything was so clean and comfortable, it looked
like heaven to me. I ran back around the house the way I had
come, to the other end. There was another window, but no
door in sight. I could wait no longer. "I can see my
mother," I called, "but where is the door?" It did not take
long to find the door then. Mother and the children ran
toward it from the inside and I ran around to meet them. I
was never so happy in my life." The girls had to sleep in a
wagon box as there was no room in the house for them. The
girls soon obtained work to make their own way and to help
their mother. Kate said, "The next three years were happy
years. We attended many dances, magic lantern shows, amateur
plays, and many kinds of parties. In this small town, girls
were scarce and we were very popular." The girls stayed in
the Mancos area until they married. Emma was first to wed,
on May 19, 1884 to Joseph Willden. Kate married Charles
Pinkerton in June 1885. Sarah was married to William
McDonald Devenport on December 15, 1885. Ellen married
William Halls on June 11, 1888, and Mary married Roy Weston
on January 1, 1889. Dora was married to Lewis Burnham on May
16, 1897. Mary Ann’s son, John Dunton, stayed with his
mother as long as she lived, and never married. Dora stated
that his not marrying "was sad for him, as he was alone and
went from place to place, like a lost sheep."

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